The recent release "Wall Street: Money Never Sleeps" illustrates behavior when financial struggles simultaneously befall two generations. A dependent mother whose real estate income is depleted in a challenging economy turns to her son when he is enmeshed in high-stakes brokering. Of course, Hollywood solved the challenge in the next half hour.
Hollywood's glamorous resoltutions differ from real-life scenarios that have temporary remedies affected by layoffs, healthcare coverage or lack of, housing alternatives, and divorce that halves emotional, physical, and financial support. I have been fortunate to know three physicians in the past 20 years who treat body, mind, and spirit sensing that physical concerns can stem from emotional concerns. Extended and daily caregiving can cause physical damage to caregivers. How many adult children share their physical concerns with an aging parent(s)...or financial challenges, if this has not been a subject between them until they come to an end of resources?
In her book, "You Mean I Have To Look At The Body?: Stories of Dying and Living", retired minister Marcia Cham confronts her own fear of death through her pastoral experiences. Her journey, colored by humor, respectful irreverence, and honesty, helps others open dialogue about end-of-life issues.
I am eager to hear about your caregiving journey whether you are in the throes or just beginning.
